F A T H E R ` S D A Y
Growing up, I was the first born son in the family. My Mom was the dominating force in the family, always stressing education, getting ahead, becoming something more. We were poor, though seldom without food, and my Dad was more of a shadowy figure to me. [ My sister, brother & I eventually earned 7 college degrees between us! ]
As first-born son, and favored by my Mom because of how well I did in school, a not always unspoken rivalry was set up between my Dad and I. We did little together; he seldom attended my sports games, except all-star games or basketball playoff games. Of course, I seldom asked him!
He and my younger brother were very close. My Dad not only attended his games, he became a coach in all the leagues my brother played in, moving up with him as my brother grew older.
A funny thing happened, however, as I grew older and had my own son. Family would say to me, over and over, " You`re just like your Father! " And they were right! My personality is much more like his than Mom`s, my expressions and oddities are his.
As I grew into my thirties, my Dad and I became quite close. My Mom used to kid him because, most nights, he would say to her, " Well,I think I`ll give Vinnie a call." We had a chance to talk about the rivalry when I was growing up, and we spoke about fears and things, in addition to sports.
I think we were both so lucky to have met each other, before he died.
HAPPY FATHER`S DAY, DAD.
Happy Father`s Day to all the Dads in J-Land, present or in spirit.
Vinnie